Curtain With Tie Back In The Middle

"Do what you feel deep in your right heart, so you'll still be criticized. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you do not. "
To those of you happened to act in a certain way, sacrificing themselves and their preferences in order to settle in and find someone else, in the end, to have given up something and to be submerged by a sea of \u200b\u200bcriticism? You gave up what he wanted to do, choosing what, in your opinion, would please others, and the sacrifice of the surrender, he added annoyance of critics. What follows the opening phrase, "Do what you feel right thing to do in the depths of your heart, so you'll still be criticized," is what happens every day. Often, however, act not so much trying to please others or to go along but in the desire not to appear selfish or greedy. We have been taught that selfishness is "evil" is wrong. Really find anything wrong with doing what feels right deep in your heart? Or do you believe, than it is right to follow what comes from your innermost center? The criticisms, as he wrote Eleanor Roosevelt, will come to you anyway. Yes, because acting against one another in the way you feel right, definitely wrong. This is because the other, deep in his heart, knows what is right for him and certainly knows better than you. It 's almost impossible for you to be able to fully understand a need nestled in the depths of someone else and give it satisfaction. Be selfish. Review the meaning you gave to this term. Remove it from the list of negative attitudes, actions to avoid and recover your space: "You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you do not."
Watch for this kind of attitude, and every time you're doing it again , ask yourself what you gain from this waiver. "What is the advantage of suppressing the instinct that I feel in my heart to encourage, by my actions, someone else?"
"Why give up to me for someone else? "
not tell you of being greedy and want everything and centralization for you and only you, but I urge you to be alert and to take actions that do not overshadow you in order to encourage someone another and obtain recognition. The praise does not come! In most cases, the criticism will come. So you get the pain of withdrawal and that of criticism and all that, is extremely "MALS"!
I greet you and hug.
"Because everything is happening now." Luca