"That bastard of my head!"
How many times have I heard this phrase repeated. How many people have seen despair and cry, with no apparent way out. And, indeed, all who are a statement like they are right. Yes, because a "leader" worthy of this appeal, when he realizes that a person who works with him thinks that about him, should have the courage to say, "Look, I know you think I'm an asshole, but if you still think that way you will never go nowhere! If, indeed, believe that the problem is I must, of necessity, change jobs. You can not think of working with your supervisor that you do not estimate. Especially, if you respect yourself you can not take orders from a moron! ", Then, if it really is a good leader, even a leader, should add," As long as you continue to think that I'm an asshole, that the problem I am, you might be missing the opportunity to look inside yourself, learn and grow! "
This seems a good leader! Since we can not claim that all leaders are leaders who take us by the hand and help us to grow, we must work on what we can and that is us! We can not have the expectation that change is our leader and do nothing to change at least a small gradient ourselves. Many, indeed, the majority, claiming that the whole world changes around them and hide behind a "I'm done / to that." But if you are like that and do nothing to change I want to explain why they would be others around you to strive for change. Meanwhile, the good rule applies not ever expect from others what we can not do. Then, I think it actually easier to change one person instead of changing all the other people of our world. Even better you can change a person only if the individual concerned us. We should not waste much time trying to convince us: we just have to decide and do it. Just start with the usual cross in you want to bend the world to our will, our desires. Enough complaints: you act and you will know the outcome. Be the change you. Change your perceptions, your angles, your ways of acting. I put the emphasis on the agar: we must act, not react! True freedom through your growth through the understanding that if you decide to change. are already free!
I greet you and hug.
"Because everything is happening now." Luca
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