Often, too often I hear a phrase that sounds, roughly, like this: "No I will never afford it! "
E 'plausible that, at a given point in their lives, there are some things that you can afford. It is unacceptable to think that this should remain an eternal state, as if nothing and no one could ever take action to change that situation. I imagine that your thoughts have already started saying "... and, but come on, some things are impossible to happen," then, in no doubt that something could really happen, add another phrase "... yes but it can also happen should happen right to me. " Even if we reject the hypothesis that there is a destiny, or a superior will call God, is possible think that things will change: we just have to want it! If we shift our desire from the scope of the ambition of the objectives that things change diametrically. The "I can not afford it" is defeatist from the start: you lay down arms and surrender. I surrender to a fate that did not give me "that thing" and I am not aware that I will ever have! NO! Wrong. I become aware that "it" is not in my current life, and for this, I pose a question: "How can I afford?"
This is the right starting point. Take note that there is, and draw a path, ie, determine and schedule a series of actions able to take me to my goal! In "How can I afford it" is all the energy you need to take the road that will lead to the desired result. The courses needed to achieve our goal we will grow. Will force us to leave their comfort zones to which we are used to discover new parts of ourselves and, perhaps, to disagree with them. Will force us to see if we are blocks that separate us from the objective set and, therefore, work to remove them. It is possible that, upon reaching our destination, we realize that what you want is not so important for us and maybe we will realize that the object of our desires was just a spring that the universe chose to give us a push forward that we needed to grow. So remember that the question is always "How can I afford it" and then not focus on the target, but never on the road to get there! If you want to make one more step, you take your vocabulary, you should delete the word "jinx" and replace it with "commitment".
I greet you and hug.
"Because everything is happening now." Luca
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