Speaking with a friend, that I can not reveal the name but that name is Roberto, I have taken in his words what he thought was a wonderful food for thought to share with you. I then realized that his thoughts could be taken as a yardstick. We were talking to our children and the relationship we have with them. Roberto pointed out to me that when we are in love with a person of the projects that we involve the other person. True, totally true. Are you in love with a person, do you think will go together to the restaurant, on holiday, movies, etc ... Programs activities to be carried out together! "Few are in love with their children," the phrase that gives the friend and hit me! The first thought that may jump to mind is that this is not true. Analyzing more deeply this concept you can get to share it. Those who have children dealing with them, puts them to bed, dresses them, washes them, feeds them, takes them to school and go get them, buy them clothes, etc ...
"Yes, but that's what you do for a person you love ", this is Robert thought," if you love them you have the desire to build things to share with them, you have to build your space, a space to share, as would two lovers ... "Roberto
: center you've done! The proof of love that a parent of a child, although difficult to measure, is certainly very great, but falling in love is another thing. I must say that probably very few parents love their children. Or, perhaps there are few that remain throughout life. It 's very easy to be in love with a little baby a few months that inspires tenderness in his look and in everything he does discover the world. Becomes much more difficult to stay in love the same child when you know that we will have a tough meeting with our boss, to which we can not reach late, and the beautiful little baby cries and cries because he does not want to be washed and dressed to go to kindergarten. It becomes almost heroic mission to stay in love with the "babe" in adolescence, a period in which there is awareness of self and the affirmation of the personality through rebellion and conflict with parents. The fact remains that Bob has put a flea in his ear and, more importantly, gave us a new yardstick to measure the love for our children. Thanks Roberto. And what do you think? Waiting for your thoughts.
I greet you and hug.
"Everything happens now." Luca
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